about myself: my name is hermes, i go by crow or joshua sometimes- im going to school fulltime for a degree in computer networking (so i can get an actual job and not starbucks and the like)
im a science fiction writer, a ghostwriter, and an amateur astronomer
im 30 years old, and i just want to continue my schooling in peace
further context: she had a "talk" with me at the beginning of the month about not mopping enough and to text her when i mop
she came at me now about our "talk" at the beginning of the month about "vacuuming", and came at me about blowing up her phone
(legal thing is about occupy ice from 2018, this isnt important)
casual sidenote: ive written about this extensively in private
so if you want to know more details feel free to message me
its too heavy to post openly on fedi, hence most of the details being posted in private
boosts are still appreciated!
i found emergency housing in the meantime!
thank you all!
@joshua this is all bullshit and i’m sure somewhere there is legal precedent to protect yourself.
Or just stand up to the wretched shit and tell her to mop her own fucking floor. You’re not her personal fucking cinderella.
I’m sure you’ve heard this before, but yeah, wanna get my two cents in on this.
@EllMcKenna thank you! and there isnt anything i can do about it legally
@jg im nocturnal so thats when i do it
and she knows this
but yea. since i have to mop, i do it when its a little after lunchtime for me
@joshua I don’t got my own place, sorry. If I hear anything you’re the first on my list to know though. …it’s a very short list.
before being evicted from not vacuuming and mopping everyday (yes this is serious)
The heck? Who are you living with, a couple of stepsisters and an evil stepmother?
@cy someone else made a similar statement lol
no shes just a controlling bitxh
and thank you! i appreciate it!
I wish we had a spare room for ya'. :( But at least I can provide one more small boost.
Portland is THE worst for housing even when there's no virus. Sending ya' nothing but good thoughts.
@xenophora ty a lot! i lived in SF for two years so, pdx wth?
thanks again! :D
@joshua this came across my scroll-thing again (I boosted) and that is some top notch Portland White Nonsense. May you find somewhere sane!
@Hylyx i know, i need to leave
at least i have an ace up my sleeve with her. i know where i can store my stuff, and i /do/ know where to go if it comes to evicting me
she doesnt want me speaking to a social worker
so im planning on being very angry, but quiet and withoout cussing
because she will be the person yelling, not me
@joshua ugh that's the worst game but glad to hear you have it aced.
@Hylyx thank you again
Not sure if they're from Portland (they mentioned events there, but they also mentioned Florida in their posts), and unfortunately I can't ask myself because Snouts doesn't see my server unless they follow you, but I figured I'd throw a snowball shot and maybe solve 2 problems at once.
@joshua I sent a link to this to a friend of mine that lives in the Portland area.
@joshua i'm so glad you managed to find a better place to stay for the time being! hopefully you find a more permanent solution soon
@chirrveon thank you!
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