@kat no it wasn't that it was that i said "if i'm garbage at a game after putting a bunch of work into it, it's not comforting for someone who hasn't put ANY work into it to say 'well you're better than me', like yeah i am but that doesn't make me good"
like "i am bad at the game, but people who have never tried to be good at the game are worse than me" is a toxic mindset i guess
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