Being openly and visibly queer in presentation is an act of revolution in and of itself.
This is something I think about a lot; I make my neighborhood visibly more queer. I fly the pride flags, I am made of rainbows. I force suburban parents to talk to their kids about gender, even when they don't want to-- just by existing and smiling and saying "hi" with my rainbow undercut and androgynous presentation.
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